i felt same way 1 year and some ago when i registered on crossfire.nu,but i realised i also made a mistake:gave to much importance to the those kids that u are talking about.now,i just sit down,read what i have to read,and i write only if absollute necessary.also...yes sometimes it takes even up to 20 30 minuts to find a war,but in the meantime i talk with the guys on ts or i m finding smt to do,and that is very very rare...i ussually play only mixes and i always search for 5 mercs...imagine that most of the occassions i find the ppl pretty fast let s say up to 10 min max,if i can t find i drop off and search another time.
now the good stuff:social side of talking and meeting the guys,(i avoid from the start those under age 20 that i dont really know them very well,and also retards i had problems in the past with),once the match starts is the thrill,the fun,the excitement.If we spot cheater,ussually cause i try to play with mature ppl,is it such a problem to kick him out(cause most of the times i play on my own server) and yet tzac despite the bad roumours is not completely terminated....there is still hope.no matter what u say pub is pub,and a war is a war....there is a difference and there are always 2 paths:the easy one and the hard one.at the end of the hard one....i find great satisfaction,and when i don t...i m pretty strong to pull it over